When did you stop showing what you love to yourself? – Homoectile

We believe that if this were the first time that we dealt with the subject of masturbation in this blog, this would mean that we are not doing our job well. Fortunately, it is not like that, although surely we talk about it much less than it deserves, than we deserve.

In one of our previous articles on the subject, we opened with a quote from a sex therapist It went like this: “The human body needs orgasms regularly. We are programmed for it, and for men’s health it is fundamental ”and it is not that our intention now is to retract it, far from it. Rather ask ourselves a question. We all agree on how good masturbation is for our mental and physical health, but do we all do it the same? Do some of us do better than others? And, as surely someone is already wondering: is there more than one possibility?

If you have been masturbating in the same way since you were a kid, maybe the time has come for you to shake your imagination a bit and put it to think about what you can do to add a little seasoning to your onanism

For most, masturbation is a game we learn in our teens, probably hidden from the rest, in a house that we do not own, with no small fear of being discovered red-handed. Once we find our most efficient way to reach orgasm we see no reason to modify our routine and the bad habits that we may have adopted in our early days are likely to end up spreading throughout our masturbatory experience, until the end of our days.

And that’s where we wanted to go, for the furthest behind, to tell them that life still holds surprises in store for us even in things as familiar as self-love. Because it’s not just about fear of being surprised, anyway. Many carry the shame learned during their early years of sexual exploration in prejudice-laden or unnecessarily hostile environments.

As reported by Dr. Uchenna “UC” Ossai, pelvic physiotherapist, certified sexual counselor and founder of YouSeeLogic, an online sex education platform: “Few people are told that masturbating is natural and a great way to learn about their own capacity for sexual pleasure.”

So if you have been masturbating in the same way since you were a kid, maybe the time has come for you to shake up your imagination a bit and get it to think about what you can do to add a little seasoning to your onanism, and thus make sure Before it is too late, you have not left any box unchecked in your demonstrations of love for yourself.

Personally, I abhor the expression “get out of your comfort zone” but that is exactly where this exciting journey to the center of oneself begins, by putting aside what you already know you know how to do, what you have become accustomed to. over the years, and trying something new, no matter how small.

If you’ve been masturbating your whole life sitting down, it’s time to try standing up, if you always do it in the shower, take it to bed right now. Once again, Dr. UC insists that: “Changing position can improve the resting tone of the pelvic floor muscles, which can help improve blood flow to the penis.” So we are not talking about changing your position just for a novelty matter, but you can also increase the strength of your erections.

Another thing that you can also try is to take your hands out of their comfort zone and take them somewhere other than your penis. It never hurts to take a look at all your skin, to give you a couple of slaps to wake up, to pull your ears … But, for now, you can try, for example, with the perineum, “the area between the penis and the year. It’s full of nerve endings and it’s very sensitive, so giving it some vibration can often be very nice, ”or so Dr. Zhana Vrangalova, a LELO sex expert and New York University Professor of Human Sexuality.

If you are not afraid of sex toys (and if you do, it is about time you missed it) try pressing something that vibrates on your perineum while you caress your penis with your other hand.

There is a lot to be said for things that vibrate, because although vibrators have traditionally been marketed for women, it is also true that in recent years there has been an increase in vibrating sex toys for men, because honestly, a penis always welcomes a little affection, especially if the affection vibrates.

According to a 2012 study, 44% of heterosexual men had enjoyed the experience of using a vibrator at some point in their life, so don’t forget to include it on your wish list or in your letter to the Three Kings.

“Many men, especially those who identify as heterosexual, regularly miss a huge source of pleasure: their asses,” Vrangalova says again. “Butts (of all genders) have a large number of nerve endings and stimulating them can be very pleasant. If you have a prostate and you can reach it (indirectly), its stimulation can be, literally, amazing ”.

Maybe it is not that, and what happens to you is that you have fallen into the same routine with yourself as the one that tends to end the sex of many marriages, and what you need is a bit of romanticism. It may seem like a joke, but have you tried to give yourself the attention you deserve?

We are not just talking about lowering the intensity of the ambient light, pouring yourself a glass of wine, lighting some candles and putting on some sensual music (good, if it works for you, what are you waiting for?) The question is not that, the question it is that you get inside your head that masturbation, in addition to many other things, is also an act of self-care.

Taking care of yourself as if you were someone you love may a priori seem not very masculine, but if you think about it, does that belief make any sense? Men also enjoy the best sex when we are relaxed, we feel safe and we have no worries on our minds. Sex with ourselves doesn’t have to be any different.

So put on a glass of your favorite drink, something very masculine if you want, like a mezcal, the kind that burns the throat well, and let yourself be carried away by what your ENTIRE body feels. You will surely discover something worth sharing with the rest in the comments. Cheer up!


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When did you stop showing what you love to yourself? – Homoectile


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