What to expect from a ‘swinger’ venue when everything you’ve been told is scary

Do you know when you promise yourself that this year you will start with the diet, that you are going to quit smoking or that you will call your parents more? I made up my mind that if I was single again, I would go to a couple swapping place.

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And I couldn’t think of a better company than one of my best friendswho had the same fantasy.

We were both clear that pretending we were a couple, it was going to come out more on account than separately just for the price of the ticket (seriously, when you see their rates, you will discover that the world swinger it’s not cheap).

So we dressed up – one of my interviewees had told me that image is important in order to attract others – and we stood at that door, where only a small sign with the name written on it revealed that we were in the right place.

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My first idea that there would be illuminated signs of the type «Sex here», «Threesomes, foursomes and orgies of all kinds» or «Welcome to partner exchange». But they were nowhere to be found. One myth less.

Do not think that my friend and I had it clear from the first moment. I spent that week thinking that I was going to crack just before you go.

In my head, a local swinger It was a place where anything could happen to you. I don’t know why I was afraid of someone lock me in a bathroomon the way to pee, thinking he was looking for a topic.

But the girl at the entrance, who made us a tour by the premises as it was our first time, he made it clear to us from the first minute that that was about consent.

What nobody could touch you in any way without first asking you or make a sign to you (and in the same way, you could answer yes or no).

«Of course, feelings stay at the door, this is just sexhe reminded us

Soon, we were with a drink in hand analyzing the territory. Another preconceived idea that I had mounted is that these types of sites are frequented by strange-looking old men.

We only found one, the rest were couples of all ages (mostly young), a small group of three friends and a gang of fifty-year-olds who, as soon as they entered, were having an orgy.

And, from how they talked to each other a while later, They were local regulars.

In addition to the super room where they were having sex, there was a dance floor with a bar. pole dancea Jacuzzi, rooms with a peephole in the door, rooms without a door, rooms with semi-transparent doors, and a couples only area.

In that part of the premises was my favorite room: the dark room. A site where you played a kind of sexual ‘darkness’ where the objective was also to catch, only not the arm, but rather the crotch.

My friend and I we start on the dance floorhaving our drinks, to then make incursions through the rest of the sites and browse.

Perhaps what shocks the most, at first, is that people are having sex in sight as if nothing had happened (joining is already your decision).

Like a couple of onlookers, we were changing from show each momentseeing all kinds of bodies and practices.

Although in the jacuzzi area people went naked or with towels, the truth is that in the rest of the premises it is usual to go with clothes.

The feeling it gave me, after the first 20 minutes of shock (that’s why for me it’s advisable to go with someone you trust) is that we had sex too overvalued, in the sense that seeing couples and small groups enjoying themselves, It already seemed like the most normal thing in the world.

And regarding security, there was a part of the night in which my friend retired with a girl that I had known after our passage through the dark room.

In that time that I wandered alone, I went with the peace of mind that nothing was going to happen to me -that I did not want to happen-. Yes I was able to pee And also the bathrooms were very clean.

It made me feel confident to know that I had been accompanied by someone with whom, if things went wrong, I would remember it with laughter and as an anecdote in our friendship.

But the truth is that we enjoyed it and we are left wanting morein every sense.

Once the ice was broken, they gave me want to try it as a couple just for the fact of living that excitement of seeing people who are fucking live and direct less than a meter away from you.

In the end, whether or not you dare to do something with the person you go with or who you meet there, it’s up to you.

But the important thing: Did I do something in the dark room? Well, that’s material for another article…

Mara Mariño.

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