Prepare your first BDSM – Vibrations Blog session

BDSM –Bondage, Domination, Submission/Sadism and Masochism– is a practice that attracts a lot of attention to couples.

Especially when they want to vary the sex, after long years of a routine. Although there are for whom BDSM is a lifestyle, personality and even clothing. BDSM can be a practice that unifies the couple from the excitement and intimacy.

Unlike heterosexual sexual practices (called vanilla), in BDSM requires preparation time. There are times when BDSM needs to prepare several days in advance, to know the different levels of pain, the various fantasies and the different skins.

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Preparations for a BDSM night

Before starting the preparations for a night of intense sensations, it is important to take into account many things. Among them, for example, is consent. To organize a night of passion it is important to talk with the couple about whatWhat is desired, what practices and fantasies can or will be carried out. Let us suppose that the couple will be naked and tied up at the mercy of someone: it is convenient to know under what conditions. In English there is an acronym for it. Its about SSC (“safe, sane and consensual”which means “safe, healthy and consensual”).

First and foremost is the safety and pleasure.

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It is important to keep in mind that many of the submissive’s fantasies and practices will come from the pleasure to please his master. However, as a master, you have a responsibility to please the submissive. Therefore, BDSM practices require mutual respect.

Another essential aspect for the preparations is the adequate time and space for each practice. Unlike the sex vanilla, BDSM practices require time not only to prepare, but also to carry them out. It is a staging of a fantasy, consensual and played. Yes, played. Because BDSM practices are part of the game of eroticism.

Therefore, the stage must be set: clothing, instruments and even, if necessary, performing rectal douches (enema).

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The BDSM Rules

Protocols are essential to feed BDSM fantasies. Every BDSM couple has their own rules and scenarios to play. There are some masters who request that their submissives are prohibited from entering the room (or floor) with clothes on, so they must undress in the hallway.

There are other masters who ask that during the session you cannot look him in the eye or speak to him. Except the safe word.

The safe word in BDSM exists to set limits and speak clearly and concisely about what some of the participants dislike or cause them extreme pain. It may be a word that has nothing to do with the game, although many people use “red”, symbolizing that “it’s over right now”.

In case the rules are not followed, the master has the right to “punish” his submissive. It’s about a disciplined game and starts from punctuality to arrive at the meeting. The punishments can vary, in the case of giving a spanking for lateness.

It is important to keep in mind that orgasms belong to the master, so if you don’t obey him and have an orgasmthe master can punish according to his wishes.

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The after-care or care after the session

After a BDSM session, the master does not know what emotions his submissive is connecting with… So to ensure that the impact does not affect excessive levels, it is important to ensure a normalcy space because it is all a game. It is about empathizing and connecting with the other person. Give affection and caresses to differentiate it from physical and emotional abuse.

Let’s remember that BDSM can be both a practice and a lifestyle. So starting in BDSM requires a lot of communication and taking into account the necessary care for full sexual health individually and as a couple. write to us info@vibracions.com for more information.

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