My partner watches porn: is it normal? – Sexologist Madrid

Despite being a subject that is becoming normalized, nowadays the consumption of pornography continues to be a cause of conflict in the couple and one of the reasons why people go to couples therapy. In this link You can find more information about our couples therapies, how they work, meet our team and contact us.

PORNOGRAPHY IN SOCIETY

Watching pornography, although it is not something new and is a practice that has been carried out for a long time, to this day it is still a subject of great debate.

Porn consumption has always been associated more with men than with women. However, this does not mean that all men do it or that women do not.

It is also worth mentioning that, as society has modernized, prejudices about pornography have diminished, and this is no longer as taboo as before. Consequently, the number of women who have joined this practice has also increased.

We must avoid falling into the myth that all men like to watch pornography and that it is only their thing.

MY PARTNER WATCHES PORN: is it normal?

Many times, when we find out that our partner is looking at pornography, we can feel humiliated, betrayed, disappointed and even repulsed towards it. Often we also come to live it as if our partner were being unfaithful to us. Consequently, we tend to think that we are no longer attractive and that we do not turn him on enough.

All this can cause us to disassociate ourselves from the couple in some way, and even not enjoy sex as much in intimate encounters as before. However, whether this happens or not will always depend on the idea we have about the consumption of pornography.

What to do if I find out my partner is looking at porn

my partner watches porn - sexologists madridOur advice, if you discover that your partner tends to look at pornography, is not to be scared or shocked. Before jumping to judgment, we should talk to our partner about it and understand the reasons why he does it. Furthermore, it should be mentioned that Watching pornography is not a bad thing and doing it with our partner can benefit us in our sexual relationships.

In this sense, these are some of the benefits that consuming pornography can bring us:

    • Enhance our desire. Increases excitement prior to sexual intercourse.
    • We learn new techniques or postures. Getting out of the monotony will make our sex different and satisfying.
    • Develop our imagination. Porn doesn’t always represent real life 100%, so it will lead us to develop our imagination and discover new things about our sexuality.
    • Increase sexual communication with my partner. Seeing erotic scenes can make us put shame aside and help us talk about certain sexual topics, fantasies, desires, etc. that we have never dared to express.
  • It helps us to try new things. Porn is characterized by the use of different characters, sex toys, costumes, etc., which we can put into action with our partner if we like them.

When we are less conditioned by the prejudices of society and we are more open to this type of practice, a better quality is maintained in our sexual relationships and in our relationships in general.

Watching pornography with our partner can be beneficial for the couple as long as it is done with mutual respect and taking into consideration the wishes and interests of the other.

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