How to have a threesome … and not die trying

Having a threesome in bed is one of the most frequent fantasies, both for men and women. People often come to my practice and my workshops asking me how to do a threesome … they don’t even know where to start! We are going to see some fundamental keys to enjoy a pleasant experience.

Choosing the right people to have a threesome

To make a threesome you need 3 people willing to do it. Finding them can be the hardest part:

  • Everyone who is going to be involved in the trio must want it. It may seem like a no-brainer, but not everyone wants to do this sexual practice. It is important that the three parties consent and wish to have a threesome. No person should do it coerced, fearful, reluctant or afraid.
  • If you are going to do the trio with your partner you must find a third person who is to the liking of both. Perhaps only one of the two of you will interact directly sexually with the other person, but both should be content and feel comfortable with the other person.
  • You can choose your among your friends, pairs of friends,
    known people … or search new contacts in Fuegodevida with the same interests as you.
  • Be careful when proposing it, never pressure and be very polite. First, test the waters with an indirect question to find out the interests of the other person. Remember that not everyone has your own fantasies, and that your fantasies are no better than anyone else’s.

How to make a threesome

Once you have the right people for you, you have to take into account a series of keys on how to do a threesome so that the experience is as pleasant and satisfying as possible for everyone.

It is essential to establish some rules of the game:

  • Clarify that everyone agrees and wishes to participate
  • Establish who will interact with whom. It is possible that one of the people in the trio wants to have sex with only one of the people in the game, and stay a little distant from the other
  • Agree limits. We all have limits and these must be explicitly clear before we begin. Don’t you want your partner to do oral sex on someone else? Don’t you feel like having anal sex? Do you prefer that your partner does not interact with anything other than with you?
  • Make requests. Likewise, you can express what you would like to happen during the sexual encounter. If you want to do a specific practice or game, it is time to ask for it!
  • Protect yourself against infection sexually transmitted. The use of female and male condoms is essential to avoid the risk of contracting an STI. When having a threesome, you have to remember to change the condom also when you change partners. For example, if the threesome is a man with two women, he must change the condom when he goes to penetrate the other woman.

It is usually good to have some key or sign to indicate that we feel uncomfortable and / or that we want abandon the sexual encounter. A pair of squeezes in the hand or on the shoulder can be a recognizable way of indicating that we are not comfortable.

That said, there is nothing left but to enjoy! When we know how to do a threesome and we take into account all these guidelines, we are ready to live an experience that can be very pleasant for everyone.

Ana Lombardía.

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How to have a threesome … and not die trying


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