We baked your sex pizza, we “binge watcher” your erotic show and now we have your water park. Worthy of MarineLand or Grandby’s Amazoo? Take your tube, we’re going to slide!
Now that you are made a Don Juan or a femme fatale of seduction. A great actor in a brand new series starting this summer, it’s time to watch the how-to from your privacy. Let’s compare your sexual practices to slides found in a water park. There are some that are beige, others are in the dark, some with several, others of all kinds of color. Again, we find those with strong or certain emotion who take it easy. We can be in the one for beginners or for the “adrenaline junky”. You, which one or which of the slides do you take to slide?
The beginnings of your sex life
Take the time to remember the very first time you started to have sex with another person. You were probably “full” uncomfortable and “awkward”. I’m willing to bet that you didn’t “break out” for your spectacular exploits after this first experience. In short, you slipped for the first time in the beige slide for the youngest. As you got older, you may have decided to go explore the park and start trying something more challenging. On the other hand, it is not rare that we do not go very far or we will experiment a lot at the beginning, but soon after.
Welcome to the limit of your comfort level of your sexual intimacy
Do you remember that he had minimum sizes for certain slides? I hated it to die for me! I was shorter than my cousin and my brother and had to wait for them downstairs while he slipped with pleasure. I’m talking of course about a real water slide here !!!! Your level of comfort with intimacy and the variety of sexual practices in your repertoire is a bit similar. On the other hand, you are not limited by your size, but your ability to tolerate the emotional load that comes with novelty.
On the other hand, as an adult, we rarely want to find ourselves in this position of a young teenager / adult who is poorly skilled and uncomfortable with his sexuality. We play it “safe”.
Any new experience comes with a learning curve, a feeling of incompetence, and a varying degree of emotional load. As I explained above in relation to your first sexual relation, you were not very confident. Time and experiences progress and you are not as uncomfortable as before and you have developed new skills. On the other hand, as an adult, we rarely want to find ourselves in this position of a young teenager who is poorly skilled and uncomfortable with his sexuality. We play it “safe”.
Safety leads to sexual platitude
It is often said that you have to feel comfortable and secure in your sexuality to be able to fully enjoy it. It is, in fact, a half-truth. You have to feel good about your sexuality, but not to the detriment of your sexual development. Sexual stagnation often leads to her death, especially as a couple. The “thrill” of the first time or the success of overcoming a challenge creates a craze and an emotional charge which gives the taste. If we never overcome our limits and live from DISCOMFORT, the human species would be extinct for a long time and we would not have all these beautiful and variant sexual practices that we have developed over the centuries.
For a successful day at the sexual water park
- Your sunscreen (sure, you don’t want to burn yourself anyway!)
- Courage against the fear of ridicule
- A curiosity for novelty and exploration
- A dose of unprecedented madness and sensuality
- Creativity that comes out of your ears
- “Challenge” your sexual limits
- Question your perceptions of certain sexual practices
Montreal psychotherapist sexologist
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